Arthur

Hey! The name’s Arthur. I am 26, and I live in Zaanstad, north of Amsterdam.

I am originally from Belgium, but I moved to the Netherlands almost 2 years ago for love. Because of that, I am fluent in French and English and Dutch. By day, I work in the optical industry and am finishing my optician degree. By night, I give saxophone lessons, play various instruments in multiple wind bands and even conduct my own wind orchestra.

Before moving here permanently, I traveled in and out of the country regularly, making great friends in the process. I've been involved with the Dutch bear community for over five years now and the fetish scene for even longer. Two years ago I even ended up as 1st Runner-Up Mr Bear Belgium

Why did I want to become Mr Bear? I know how socials work. I also know how to reach the younger generation. Most of all, I want to help people, not only bears, but from all communities. The bear community is the faction of hugs, self-acceptance, and self-care. Our message is more than just “we are bigger, hairier and that’s okay”. It also includes “we are worthy of giving and receiving love. We are allowed to love ourselves and accept our flaws.”That is the message I want to spread to everyone.

As I said, I moved here for love. Unfortunately that didn't last and I lost my partner to substance abuse a few months later. My project as Mister Bear will be to organise charity concerts, where the proceeds would go to organizations who help people who are struggling like he was. Let me be clear: I have no problem with substance use, we have all used them. That being said: When it crosses the line from recreation to addiction, it becomes an unhealthy problem. I want to help the people who are spiraling and try to help them get it under control.